Love Is All You Need

Happy Valentine’s Day!!! In my family growing up, it was always a tradition to send out Valentine’s Day cards instead of Christmas cards.  As my Mom always said, “Who can get their shit together during the holidays?!” LOL.  Now that I’m a Mama myself I totally get that, and I’ve been continuing the tradition myself with my own family! I also think that it’s nice to get a little bit of happy mail after the Christmas card rush…and to remind your friends and family that you love them.  A whole lotta love never hurt nobody.  In fact, some might say it makes the world go ’round…

Eva Amurri Martino, Kyle Martino, and their children Marlowe and Major celebrate Valentine's Day at their home in Connecticut

Eva Amurri Martino, Kyle Martino, and their children Marlowe and Major celebrate Valentine's Day at their home in Connecticut

I’ve been thinking about Love a lot recently.  I think it’s a term that we all use really frequently but seldom take the time to fully engage with or understand.  It loses its force a bit.  Think of all the things we love– we LOVE that outfit, we LOVE that salad, we LOVE a certain TV show or Yoga class, or lipstick.  Of course we love our families and friends, too, and some of us tell them often.  But what does loving something or someone really mean to us?

For me, Love is about respect, dedication, and appreciation for the true essence of something.  It’s looking at somebody and saying that you want to honor and protect them, while also respecting and celebrating the essence of what makes them THEM.  The same goes for a TV show, or Yoga class, or lipstick.  In that way, love is a little like freedom– a celebration of the uniqueness in everyone, and of the fact that our differences are part of what makes life worth living.

I’m not going to hide it, the current political climate has me heartbroken.  I could go on and on as to why, but suffice to say I’m scared.  We have many friends whose basic liberties are being threatened, and there are so many good people who will be separated from their loved ones and lose the many things they’ve worked hard for for so many years if the Immigration Ban does not continue to be blocked.  As Americans, we are a nation of immigrants.  My own grandparents came through Ellis Island, in search of a better life.  I love our Country because of the way we have historically been trailblazers for what is right and just– we hold space for those who need it most and lead by example.  We love first.  This Valentine’s Day, I’m holding space for hope.  I’m reminding myself to be a beacon for those who are hurting at this moment, to keep loving and lending light to the darkest of times.  Fear is easy.  Courage is harder, but worth it.

In our Valentine’s Day card this year, instead of a family update, we inserted a quote.  It’s so simple, but has always been one of my favorites– spoken by one of the greatest beacons of light in our history, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.: “Darkness cannot drive out Darkness, only Light can do that.  Hate cannot drive out Hate, only Love can do that.

Sending Love and light to you and yours! Keep shining!




Eva Amurri Martino, Kyle Martino, and their children Marlowe and Major celebrate Valentine's Day at their home in Connecticut

Major Martino wears a grey and white checked shirt and jeans for Valentines Day

Marlowe Martino sticks her head through a silver balloon

Marlowe Martino sits on her daddy's shoulders wearing a blue and pink sparkly dress

Eva Amurri Martino, Kyle Martino, and their children Marlowe and Major celebrate Valentine's Day at their home in Connecticut


Photographs by Courtney Ann Photography


My dress and Marlowe’s dress by Modcloth.




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  1. Nicole says:

    I’m just saying … you are the best mom ever!! I know you have your struggles as do I and everyone for that matter, but you really know how to rock a good holiday and share the joy! I absolutely love Valentine’s Day. Can there be a better day … I mean you get to tell people you love them!?!? There’s nothing better than that. Great post!! ❌⭕️❌⭕️

  2. Julie says:

    The love emanating from your adorable family is palpable…brings a smile and often a laugh! I too am profoundly affected by the current state of our country; but also very energized to make a change. A big hug to your little tribe!

  3. Mary says:

    Great idea to send family Valentines cards! Brilliant. And thanks for sharing your thoughts about what is going on. I really enjoy your blog, and it is nice to have some happiness to read online in a world with some very scary news. <3

  4. Rachel says:

    Your family is just amazing 🙂 Love everything you do and then some 🙂
    Happy Valentines Martino’s – love and light

  5. Katie says:

    Such a great idea! Always loved seeing those cards. Our favorite was when you were an angel and your brothers were little devils. So cute! Christmas cards are too stressful to get out in time, I’m thinking my family should do this too. Happy Valentines to you beautiful family.?

  6. Beautiful words and even more beautiful photos dear Eva,i hope you always have love in your life,and many good blessings,love seeing photos of your babies,warms my heart,love them

  7. Heather says:

    I love love love this idea! I want to do Christmas cards every year but how? I think choosing a holiday after Christmas is a great idea!